It's not a big occasion. Just a small one and a gift isn't expected. So it's not a question of big gift vs small gift because she isn't expecting any gifts.I'll be gifting her a bottle of pepper spray, casually.1) What is your opinion on this? Aye or nay?2) Also, is this a healthy thing for her or a bad thing? The whole point is to make her able to defend herself in places. But would it boost a woman's confidence or make her feel dependent on it? Perhaps women who have carried pepper sprays might be able to comment on whether it actually makes them feel more secure or feel dependent on it.3) Have you ever tried spraying it in the washroom and did the smell settle down after sometime? via /r/Gifts http://ift.tt/2sKQWpi
