To start off... my girlfriend is not spoiled, rich, or any of that... we both come from normal middle class families and have worked hard to become successful in our careers and can now afford most things we want. She also shops a lot on her days off and has pretty much bought everything she wants or needs for now.Great example of this, I was planning some small items and I remembered she had mentioned wanting one of those new scalp massagers tools for the shower or whatever. a Very simple and small gift, but it recognizes that I knew so I had it loaded up in my cart and planned to buy it later that night. Well as soon as I got home, sure enough she had some packages and when she opened them, one was the EXACT massager I was planning to get - same color and everything...We've been dating for a year and her birthday is coming up in a month. I'm stressing to find a good gift for her in addition to the small items I've already gotten her. I want to get her something she's really been wanting or needs, but there's a few problems to that...She's picky about clothes, shoes, fashion items, perfume, etc... so I've strayed away from these type of items when it comes to gifts. For Christmas, I just had her tell me exactly what she wanted, then I went out and got it and vice versa for myself. Unfortunately, she's being stubborn and not telling me she needs/wants anything.With that said, I'm lost. When my birthday was up in April, she had overheard me talking about these shoes I wanted for a while and she surprised me with getting them (in good time before my actual birthday, because I almost bought them myself). I never get the chance to overhear her talk about things she would buy or wants because, well.... she just shops on her days off while I'm out and about or at work.We have a couple trips coming up towards the end of the year, but we're not sure on the dates yet, so I don't want to jump on anything like that just yet.... would anyone be able to help out a hopeless romantic with his gift giving issues??Thanks in advance!!TL:DR - Girlfriends b-day is coming up, not sure what to get her. She has pretty much everything she wants/needs and can/will buy items on her own because she has free time, money, and likes to shop online (dangerous combo, I know lol). Trying to get her something big in addition to smaller items I've already bought. Need ideas!! via /r/Gifts https://www.reddit.com/r/Gifts/comments/bzc94v/what_do_you_i_m27_buy_my_gf_f27_for_her_bday_who/?utm_source=ifttt
